If someone shows you who they are, believe them.
~Maya Angelou
I first heard this on Oprah. It stuck with me. It reinforces that actions actually back up thought.
I see his actions and I believe him. I believe him to the point now that I no longer care to believe in him.
Wishy-washy and weak is what comes to mind.
It hurts when a person falls from a pedestal, I’m glad I was the one standing on the floor when it happened. I stepped to the side just in time.